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For anyone who has lost a child
I Still Leave the Light On
Life after losing a child can feel unfamiliar in ways no one prepared you for.
The meals stop arriving. The phone goes quiet. And you are still setting out their photo, saying their name, keeping a light on.
$15 · approximate local price shown at checkout
Buy the bookInside, you'll find
- Why losing a child is unlike any other grief, and why there is no timetable for it
- Getting through the first months: the fog, your body, and when to ask for help
- Keeping your child close: their name, their room, their things, their story
- Grieving alongside a partner, and helping your other children
- Words for 'How many children do you have?', and for the things people say
- Guilt, anger and 'what if', with care for losses that carry extra weight
- Verified support across seven countries, including help after baby loss
There's nothing to fill in and no homework. Each chapter ends with a few small things you can do today.
What this book helps with
Built around what actually helps
The fog, your body, and grief that has no timetable
Guilt, anger and 'what if', with extra care for losses that carry more weight
Grieving alongside a partner, and the things people say
The first months, and knowing when to ask for more help
Words for 'How many children do you have?'
Their name, their room, their things, their story
Questions
How do I get the book?
Checkout is handled securely by Gumroad. Straight after paying, you'll get an email with a download link, and you can download it again any time.
Can I read it on my phone?
Yes. It's a PDF that opens on phones, tablets and computers. You can also print it at home.
Can I give it as a gift?
Yes. At checkout, choose "Give as a gift" and enter your friend's email. They'll receive the book directly.
Is this a replacement for counselling?
No. The book offers comfort and general information, not medical or psychological advice. It includes verified support lines, and gentle guidance on when to ask for more help.
