A printable letter-writing journal · for any loss
Letters I Never Sent
For the words that still need somewhere to go.
The ordinary news you'd have told them first. The question they never answered. The thank-you, the sorry, the anger, the sentence you never found.
$9 · approximate local price shown at checkout
Get the journalA collection of letters, not a workbook
Write to someone who has died, someone still living but no longer in your life, an animal companion, a home, a job, or the person you used to be. Start anywhere, skip anything, and return to the same page as often as you need.
- 24 gentle prompts in four collections: Ordinary days, The words left over, Goodbyes without a funeral, and What remains
- A "find a place to begin" page that matches how today feels to a letter
- Reusable pages to print as often as you like: a continuation sheet, an unlined sheet, and a short-letter page
- Quiet ideas for what to do with a finished letter, and a simple printing guide
Written with care. No compulsory "Dear" or "With love". No pressure to forgive, feel grateful or find a lesson. Room for anger, for unfinished letters, and for days when one sentence is all there is.

Questions
How do I get it?
Checkout is handled securely by Gumroad. Straight after paying, you'll get an email with a download link for both paper sizes, and you can download them again any time.
Can I fill it in on my computer?
No, it's a printable PDF, made for pen and paper. The contents page links work on screen, so you can jump straight to a letter before printing.
Which size should I print?
US Letter for the US and Canada, A4 for most other countries. Print at "actual size", one page at a time if you like.
Can I give it as a gift?
Yes. At checkout, choose "Give as a gift" and enter your friend's email.
Is this a replacement for counselling?
No. It's for comfort and reflection. Support lines are listed inside.
Gentle guides for a particular loss
After losing a dogThe House Still Knows Your Name
For the quiet house and the lead by the door
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After losing a catThe Sunny Spot Is Still Yours
For the empty windowsill and the 'just a cat' comments
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After losing a fatherWho Do I Call Now?
For losing the one you called for everything
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After losing a childI Still Leave the Light On
For any parent, whatever age their child was
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Where the Letters Go